"compelling, challenging, and convincing."

This book is a true work of heart. Darla takes her complicated and often painful experiences and shares honestly and unashamedly to help Christians struggling with their own cocoons. Her ability to gently present the lessons she’s learned, and the truth of God’s true and perfect love in her brokenness offers hope and healing.

"compelling, challenging, and convincing."

This book is a true work of heart. Darla takes her complicated and often painful experiences and shares honestly and unashamedly to help Christians struggling with their own cocoons. Her ability to gently present the lessons she’s learned, and the truth of God’s true and perfect love in her brokenness offers hope and healing.

Women, Healthy or Unhealthy?
What is the Condition of Your Relationships?

  • What is love according to Christ’s definition and design?
  • How do you know if your nonromantic relationships or marriage follows Christ’s healthy love standards?
  • How can you tell if your relationships are healthy, unhealthy, or toxic-abusive, and what can you do as a disciple of Christ?

FAITH LEADERS
The Unhealthy and Abusive Marriage Pandemic. What is the role of Faith Leaders?

  • How are you as pastors, teachers, mentors, and staff handling the pandemic of unhealthy or toxic-abusive marriages in your church?
  • What are you doing to ensure victims are subjected to spiritual abuse?

  • Do you know how to identify, help, support, and teach believers the differences between healthy, unhealthy, and toxic-abusive marriages so they can thrive in Christ’s healthy love?

Darla Colinet’s captivating personal story to find true love is full of authentic transparency and is a rare message of inspiration and support for Christian women dealing with domestic abuse or violence and unhealthy love. She shares her journey of faith as she triumphed over her difficult experiences of being date-raped at fifteen, trapped in the cycle of domestic abuse for 30 years in three marriages, and divorced three times. Her experiences have made her an expert on Christian domestic violence and abuse support for women.

Darla is proof that Jesus can transform your life and heart. As an experienced women’s speaker on domestic abuse and violence, she shares the simple, effective revelations and strategies from Jesus and the word of God that transformed her life.  Her Christian domestic violence and abuse support talks and workshops encourage, motivate, and bring hope and healing to audiences.


Darla is an expert exceptional love speaker and Christian domestic violence and abuse keynote speaker for women’s groups and churches. She is here to help your audience understand the complexities of abuse and how to find healing in Christ’s exceptional love design. Darla lives with her husband in the Fort Collins and Denver, Colorado area.

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